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Sonja Nufer Psychologist &
Book Author - Coaching in Communication
Are you looking for emotional well-being, either in your job or in your family life?
Are you looking for someone to coach or mentor you?
Are you looking to set up a coaching system in your work-place?
If the answer to any of these is YES, then I can help you.
What can I do for You?
My name is Sonja Nufer. I am a professional life, career and business coach with a
background in psychology. I speak several languages. I am German and fluent in English,
French, Spanish and Italian.
My Background
After some years working as a translator and interpreter in a number of companies across
Germany and Europe, I decided to change direction. I studied psychology at University in
Berlin, and since 2001 I have been working as a consultant, trainer and coach. For my
dissertation I studied and wrote about the motivation factors in the lives of
psychotherapists themselves! I have also taken training as a coach at the Family Therapy
Institute ("BIF") in Berlin.
What is Coaching?
Coaching is neither therapy nor consulting. Coaching focuses on the development and
implementation of strategies to reach those goals which my clients have identified for
themselves. Coaching is a way to bridge the gap between where your career/business or even
your life is today and where you would like it to be.
Coaching is a process that unleashes your potential so you can achieve your goals. It can
have radical and positive effects.
So, for example, for a business owner or executive it might involve learning how to
delegate better, how to manage employees with ease and confidence, how to feel less
stressed in a demanding and fast-paced job.
I encourage people to make the changes and choices in their professional and private life
that will lead them along their personal route to happiness, self-appreciation and success
in life.
Workplace Issues
At work you might be facing any one (or more) of the following issues:
missing emotional well-being at work
the need to make better decisions
lack of enthusiasm
. burned out
self-doubt or lack of esteem
loneliness in leadership positions
pushy colleagues or bosses
outright hostility in the work-place
conflicts - at work, at home, or in other situations
relocation
re-entering into the job after maternity leave
retirement
Management Issues
As a manager, you might be having to deal with:
career advancement and career development
total career change
how to create a positive working atmosphere?
how to motivate the people who work for you?
how to maintain and improve your relationship with your clients?
how to engender a creative environment
Can you work with me long-distance?
Yes, because I work with people by phone, skype and also by e-mail.
In fact sometimes distance can even have advantages.
You can be anywhere in the world and I can support you.
Contact: Do not hesitate to contact me.
PSCC
Psychology Supervision Coaching Communication
Dipl.-Psych. Sonja NUFER
Erich-Kuttner-Str. 16, D-10369 Berlin, Germany
Mobil. + 49 (0)175 537 39 32
skype. sonjagermany
E-mail info@sonja-nufer.de
Book Blog: www.sonja-nufer.de/BLOG
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About Sonja Nufer
Sonja Nufer, Cyber Psychologist and Book Author
Qualified translator & interpreter for English
(fluent in French, Spanish, Italian)
PSCC Psychology Supervision Coaching Communication
Berlin, Germany
Book by Sonja Nufer & Hans Christian
Schrader
When love becomes disaster. Bullying in Partnership
Eichborn Frankfurt, in October 2007, 392 pages, 19.95

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Sonja Nufer is a qualified psychologist and author. She is the managing director of the
Berlin PSCC company with a focus on psychology, supervision, coaching, communication. She
works as a career and relationship coach.
At the Technical University of Berlin, Sonja Nufer studied psychology. The most
interesting in her studies was her work, which also influenced her future career path
towards coaching and supervision. Her work was about professional biographies and the
motives of psychologists to become psychotherapists.
www.tu-berlin.de
Shortly after that Prof. Dr. Eva Jaeggi published her book: ".... And who treats the
psychological therapists?"
After her studies, Sonja Nufer worked as a professional consultant in a Berlin Senate
Project. At the same time, she accomplished some further training at the BIF - Berlin
Institute for Family Therapy, systemic therapy, supervision, guidance, training eV. Thus,
she became a systemic coach & supervisor, trained according to the standards of the
DGSv, the German Association for Supervision e.V.
www.bif-systemisch.de
www.dgsv.de
Sonja Nufer works internationally and interculturally and advises in 5 languages - German,
English, French, Spanish, Italian.
She specializes in executive, entrepreneur and business start-up coaching. The focus of
her work is to develop the creative potential, "Flow", vitality, joy of life and
to find a constructive and human way to solve conflicts.
Sonja Nufer works with people and organizations especially in times of change and
upheaval. She works in an interdisciplinary network.
Together with Dipl.-Psych. Hans Christian Schrader she published the book When love
becomes disaster. It is the first time that the concept of bullying, which is known
at the workplace, is transferred to the world of private relations.
Sonja Nufer is always interested to create new, positive and creative projects.
-- URANIA Berlin, Seminars, e.g. JOUR FIX (seminar with mediterranean atmosphere, buffet,
music & dancing)
-- Small Talk Seminar
-- Flirtation Seminar
-- Seminar about psychosomatics
-- Dealing with difficult people
-- Burnout in relationships
-- Freud and its significance for today
-- China and the art of intercultural communication and cooperation
--Yoga Festival Berlin 2008: yoga as an element in coaching
-- International and creative project management and consultancy
-- TV and radio coaching
-- Intercultural & International projects
-- cyber psychology and coaching per skype: sonjagermany
What does Sonja Nufer do in her leisure
time?
psychology, body work, sports, dancing (salsa, latin, oriental), yoga, ahora, nia, nature,
travelling, getting to know other cultures, art & culture, healthy nutrition
Book by Nufer & Schrader October 2007
When Love becomes Disaster. Bullying in Partnership
The First Book about Bullying in Partnership
Sonja Nufer & Hans Christian Schrader
Wenn Liebe zum Desaster wird. Mobbing in der Partnerschaft.
Eichborn Oktober 2007
www.eichborn-verlag.de
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What is the book about?
Bullying in the form of psycho terror does not only exist at the workplace, but also in
marriage and partnership. We assume that in more than 80 % of all relationships bullying
takes place at least from time to time.
But what means bullying in partnership?
What starts with unconscious offences, often results in fatal self-dynamics: humiliating
criticism, hostile behaviour, humiliation in front of others and hatred. After many years
of fatiguing arguments separation or divorce seems the only way out.
Sonja Nufer and Hans Christian Schrader show in 33 stories about couples, how and why love
gets to animosity. Numerous examples and daily situations show the deeper psychological
conflicts which cause bullying in partnership.
The interdisciplinary method of the book does not only offer aspects from psychology and
psycho therapy, but also from psychological astrology, mythology, art, literature, music,
politics, sport and the circus. Thus there are surprising solutions for situations which
seem to offer no prospects.
Only if you learn about the causes of the conflicts, there will be unusual chances to live
the relationship in a different way or to separate in dignity and respect.
The central topics of this book are the
following:
- 33 stories about couples concerning bullying in relationship
- Finding out about the psychological causes
- First Aid
- New perspectives of solving the conflict
- Unexpected solutions (reference to circus, animal couples, politics, economics, sports,
football, music, mythology,
psychology, astrology, art....)
- The hidden sense of bullying in relationship
- Modern and creative models for partnership in the 21st century (including intercultural
relationships)
- Flirtation - the opposite of bullying
Despite bullying in relationships, we plead for the importance of LOVE and PEACE, creative
and human solutions:
Even if the situation is difficult, just try to keep your humour!
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